Hold...is there any chance that you misunderstood the counselor or took it upon yourself to twist the advice a bit? Did the counselor say to withhold angry outbursts, or withhold anger altogether?

Just wondering...because here's a counselor who couldn't help you as a couple - Are you so sure that their advice to you as an individual wouldn't be off the mark as well?

Can you recall that conversation? Just wondering.

Last edited by Soolee; 12/02/09 05:29 AM.
Sooly

"Stop yappin and make it happen."
"The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you."

Me 47
DH 46
Together for 28 years.
Married 21 years.