Originally Posted by LovingAnyway
And these acts seem to me to be not to make the marriage for MrsHold...have a marriage right now different than before.

Who said I was trying to have a marriage now different than before? I am trying to maintain the status quo. We remain together but unhappy. I am not trying to change the unhappy part, because I do not believe that part can be changed without changing the together part.

Were you asking me how I think you've helped my own marriage?

Well, I cannot deny being curious. wink

When you can see it coming, duck!