Originally Posted By: LovingAnyway
And these acts seem to me to be not to make the marriage for MrsHold...have a marriage right now different than before.


Who said I was trying to have a marriage now different than before? I am trying to maintain the status quo. We remain together but unhappy. I am not trying to change the unhappy part, because I do not believe that part can be changed without changing the together part.

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Were you asking me how I think you've helped my own marriage?


Well, I cannot deny being curious. wink


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