MrsW with all due respect to you and others I am NOT TRying to justify my actions,truely I am not.
Yet, you justified your actions in this very thread - by blaming your own parents.
We have a little child that was planned and I begged and begged for
.... while unmarriedand we both have children from exs
... children who have been forced to live with the pain & chaos brought about by your choices and irresponsible, selfish actions and we both have a child from earlier relationships were there was no marriage.
... children who have been forced to live with the pain & chaos brought about by your choices and irresponsible, selfish actions
We have this little girl
... whose parents never married (sad, shameful, irresponsible) that I want to show what true love is
... "true love" is not within your grasp. It requires commitment, and consistency, morality, integrity, and responsible decision-making
and to grow up with both her parents, our other children did nt get that chance.
... because of your selfishness and inability to takes vows and keep your promises
I was NEVER in love with my ex
... again, making a baby under such circumstances shows poor judgment, and low character
but my parents pushed me to marry her since I already had a child out of wedlock.
... see - you blame shift here, which is pathetic 
Again our other children didnt get the chance to have both parents in their life into adulthood.
... because of your selfishness, lack of moral compass, and attitudes about love, marriage, comitment
I feel so strongly that that is the problem with so many children in todays society.
... a problem you have done your part in perpetuating I want our child to have this chance if you call that selfish then so be it.
I know the other children have paid the price for their parents actions
... the price for YOUR actions - OWN IT and there is nothing we can do about it now,but to learn and move on and show them what we have learned and to show them what rasing a child should be like with loving parents.
YOU ARE AN UN MARRIED MAN SAYING THIS - you cannot be serious !!! 
