This was my concern. I figured she' either go back to you or just find another OM to meet her needs. She seems like a serial relationship jumper, jumping from one relationship right into the next. IF you still want to save your M, I would suggest exposing this new OM to her family, his family, and give him a firm talk about leaving your WW alone.

Like I told you before, if you continue with your plan A you will either save your marriage, or found out in the process that your marriage shouldn't be saved. Just keep sticking to the plan for now.


BS - 32 (me)
FWW - 33
Married 8/31/03
No kids (but 3 cats)
D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA)
NC agreed to - 11/8/06
NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07
Status - In Recovery
Jim's Story