HOLD, it would be good if you hung out with non toxic friends who would be encouraging and accepting. If you are around people like your wife only, you may get used to having a bad or negative view of yourself.

Around other normal, nice folks, you could see that you are FINE, your income is FINE, higher than most, and it is your WIFE who has the ego problem wanting more and more money that she does not have to work for herself. She does not realize that money, even big money, will not heal inner wounds nor will it make you more accepted and loved in this world by others.