The underlying message in her VM is that she is having second thoughts. Everything you�ve described about your WW tells me she is a drama queen and likely a borderline personality. Drama feeds a need she has. A lack of drama feels abnormal. So there is constant triangulation. There�s always an �us against them� going on in some way. If there isn�t she creates it.

This leads to a never ending amount of drama for you in your life. It will cost you your career. It will cost you friends.

You�re better off with a normal woman.