The underlying message in her VM is that she is having second thoughts. Everything youve described about your WW tells me she is a drama queen and likely a borderline personality. Drama feeds a need she has. A lack of drama feels abnormal. So there is constant triangulation. Theres always an us against them going on in some way. If there isnt she creates it.

This leads to a never ending amount of drama for you in your life. It will cost you your career. It will cost you friends.

Youre better off with a normal woman.