Originally Posted by CWMI
Originally Posted by wannatry
It really sounds like you are at the end of your rope with your H. What's your plan? If what you say about how he acts when you go out without him is true...how could he tolerate plan B? And, how would you know when to take him back if he isn't honest about stuff? Would he just agree to all your conditions and then later tell you he was manipulated?

Ugh, this sucks for you!

Ugh is right! Just based on history, I would say you are right--he would agree to Plan B conditions and then accuse me of manipulating and controlling him.

I realize that my post wasn't very encouraging or helpful frown

If talking to Steve was one of the conditions...

I guess if you are at the end of your rope, it can only go up from here smile

I am sorry you are going through this.