Nah, I'm not suggesting giving into deal breakers. I was attempting to think there could possibly be a positive. Say hehe has to travel for one weekend once a month, you two could use it as a chance to get away and see a new city. Has your husband asked if the travel is mandatory?

Husband (me) 39
Wife 36
Daughter 21
Daughter 19
Son 14
Daughter 10
Son 8 (autistic)