Originally Posted by Hilltopper1972
I'm an afterthought to my wife. It feels horrible. Her words, her body language, all of it speaks, " look I'll get around to finding you important when I get to it, back off.". How can I want to keep giving to that person? I'll work on how I approach being brutally honest I for sure showed impatience.

Hill... Hill, Hill, Hill...


Can you man up a bit, and give your week a one week stretch where she can try to get things going without you having a meltdown?

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