Originally Posted by CWMI
Hill, did you ever enumerate the ways in which your need for affection could be met on the ENQ?

Yes apparently not specific enough for my wife so I'm doing a new one specific with actual acts of affection and times of day thanks.


I'm taking a break, it is best for my wife and I. We tend to do better when I spend time in the workbook and not here. My wife told me she's never seen me this way until I began my journey here and that needs to change. I've received some great advice here from all of you actually so don't see me as a lost cause, I just think the format of a forum for some reason isn't conducive to making me chill out and do better. I hope to work on that, but for now I get feel insulted, bullied, and want to strike back. The best three days my wife had I didn't spend much time on here at all. I intend to try just that again and see if we can minimize the outside suggestions and perspectives. Thanks again for everything, maybe I'll check back next week!


Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD