Good luck with the phone consultation. However, if you can't control yourself, phone counciling isn't going to help you control your insecurities.

I don't agree with the telling a parent. Nothing was a bigger LB to me than when my wife used to tell me "I'm calling your mother". Geez. What am I, 3?

Call the Harleys and skip the going to mommy and daddy.

Husband (me) 39
Wife 36
Daughter 21
Daughter 19
Son 14
Daughter 10
Son 8 (autistic)