Originally Posted by Hilltopper1972
From my perspective she vascillates frequently which makes me feel like a three-toed sloth trying to keep up with a cheetah.

You both vascilate frequently due to the fact neither of you feel safe with one another yet. The key to fixing this, as you already know, is avoiding LB's. No excuses, just don't do them.

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