Originally Posted by Happy2CU
You asking her for a hug, not demanding a hug. Do you see the difference? ... The way I saw the list of things that you gave your wife, this is a menu of things that she can do for you. I didn't really think it was a list of things she MUST do everyday. I think that's what she means by expectations. Your best bet is to ask her what she meant by it.

Happy, I think you hit the nail on the head with this insight.

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