Originally Posted by PTH
I think she needs to know that you will not be in a marriage in which needs are not being met!

You know, Dr. Harley just really does not advocate this approach that often for men. I am betting Hilltopper has already said it.

At this point, I don't think there is much else to say, but there is much more to do. Her emotional needs are not being met, or she would be coming around.

Hilltopper is going to have to go first meeting her needs -- possibly for quite some time. He hasn't been able to get her involved in UA time, so I am betting the approach to take is going to go in the direction of some other emotional needs before she will feel interested in the more intimate needs.

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