You could start marriage Coaching by yourself.
Several do that. And the marriage Coach gives you advice.
The idea would be that she would see such great changes in you (because her love bank is being filled) that she would be more receptive to MB.

But... She said shes open to counseling?
Well that may be an open door for you. Call around and see if you can find a Marriage Builder Counselor.
There is an article here on how to locate a marriage counselor: