Mel, it is very interesting when people read the MB concepts and discover more ways their spouse "needs to change" instead of learning how to improve their own marriage skills.

In my professional life, my licensing required "continued education" hours/units.
MB is sort of like that.
Finding ways to continue our education and deepen our skill level.

LINK ~~> Carrot/Stick of Plan A

LINK ~~> Buyers/Renters/Freeloaders