KPT, what Dr. Harley can do for you is teach you how to motivate your wife to even want to do any of this program.

If I were you (and I basically was, a few years back), I would start listening to Dr. Harley's radio show every single day, daily, and let him teach you what you can do to turn this around.

That's a lot more efficient than strategizing on your own all the time and weathering horrendous ups and downs.

If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app!

Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8.
Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010

If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.