This is a spinoff from a thread on the "just found out" board about a lady worried about running into the OW. I, for one, encouraged her to hold her head high, as I have.<p>Part of the reason I have been able to do this is because my OW wanted something from my WH that she didn't get. And I can say - nanna nanna nanna [img]images/icons/tongue.gif" border="0[/img] to her in my mind when I see her because she didn't get all that she wanted. (I'll admit she got too much, but play along, it might be therapeutic!!)<p>My OW wanted sex with my WH. She wanted sex so bad she tried several tactics from seduction, to daring, to mothering etc. BUT SHE NEVER GOT IT!! Hee Hee. <p>What did yours want? A new spouse, money, you out of the picture?<p>HOLD THAT HEAD UP HIGH!!! If your WS is home, and even if they are fence sitting - YOU won, or stand a solid chance to!!!!!!! [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]

Sounds like you are having a better day!! I'm sure glad to see smiles and winks!! Love you!!