Well, it seems that the OW's H or someone is trying to check up on my H and/or us. AFter a few days of seeing the OW's city and strange #, I became suspicious. Finally, yesterday I was home when they called and it was someone pretending to be with the cable company offering me a special that was bogus. I have confirmed this with the local cable company. <p>Called husband because I am concerned since OW is coming to visit this weekend. At first he seemed worried and scared. Then went off on me saying i'm trying to "bait" him into saying that she was coming into town - WHATEVER!!!!<p>I'm scared that some crazy rich controlling BH is going to come knocking on my door to hunt down my H. <p>My H is so in the FOG. I've tried asking for time off, either he or I caves. I only caved because I felt it was important that he knows for his protection. <p>I feel I can't win. I'm just venting. I did call the FBI and police. FBI looking into this.<p>Anyone out there deal with this before?<p>Llama

Do you have caller ID? If so, did it show what number the caller was calling from?

Yes, the number is not traceable. I gave it to the FBI. I'm so disappointed and disgusted as to how all of this has come down the pipe these last few months. UGH.