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Good stuff for plan A... those in relational disaster #1004790 05/28/02 02:32 PM
Joined: Jul 2001 Posts: 2,909 * Cali Member
Cali Member * Joined: Jul 2001 Posts: 2,909	Surfing around looking for answers...<p>found this: How to live your lives in the face of relational disaster <p>Thought newbies and plan A'ers might get something out of it.<p>Hugs, Cali<p>[ May 28, 2002: Message edited by: Cali ]</p>

Re: Good stuff for plan A... those in relational disaster #1004791 05/28/02 03:46 PM
Joined: Jul 2001 Posts: 2,909 * Cali Member
Cali Member * Joined: Jul 2001 Posts: 2,909	^^bump^^<p>Having a hard day... see full post "In Recovery."<p>Hugs, Cali

Re: Good stuff for plan A... those in relational disaster #1004792 05/28/02 03:59 PM
Joined: Jul 2001 Posts: 3,661 F Faith1 Member
Faith1 Member F Joined: Jul 2001 Posts: 3,661	That is a great link, Cali! Thank you!!! I love the triangle thing. Our counselor drew that out for us. It really puts things in perspective.<p>I posted to you. Hope it helps a little tiny bit. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]

Re: Good stuff for plan A... those in relational disaster #1004793 05/28/02 06:16 PM
Joined: Jul 2001 Posts: 2,909 * Cali Member
Cali Member * Joined: Jul 2001 Posts: 2,909	SOS ^bump^

Re: Good stuff for plan A... those in relational disaster #1004794 05/28/02 07:14 PM
Joined: Mar 2002 Posts: 2,868 S Spacecase Member
Spacecase Member S Joined: Mar 2002 Posts: 2,868	This is really good, Cali...Thanks!<p>Not sure I can help YOU, but headed over there...

Re: Good stuff for plan A... those in relational disaster #1004795 05/28/02 08:02 PM
Joined: Jul 2001 Posts: 141 M MissingHer Member
MissingHer Member M Joined: Jul 2001 Posts: 141	You know Cali, that's good even if your not a newbie!!<p>I am printing that out and putting up on my fridge in my new place and I don't care if my wife sees it when she comes over! Some of those are a lot harder to implement that one might think!

Re: Good stuff for plan A... those in relational disaster #1004796 05/29/02 10:15 AM
Joined: Jul 2001 Posts: 3,661 F Faith1 Member
Faith1 Member F Joined: Jul 2001 Posts: 3,661	ok... being bold here... [img]images/icons/cool.gif" border="0[/img] <p>sweet, gentle, compassionate Faith1 is stepping out on a limb and giving orders!!!! [img]images/icons/cool.gif" border="0[/img] <p>Calling all Plan A'ers!!! Yoooo-hooooooo!!!!!<p>Check in with us here... check out Cali's link... print it... read it... do it...<p>THEN... post a reply and let us know you got it and what you think of it!<p>So many of you are out there struggling - asking questions - needing help with boundaries and avoiding LB's - - > HERE are some SIMPLE answers! In Cali's link!<p> [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] ok... I'm done giving orders now. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]<p>[ May 29, 2002: Message edited by: Faith1 ]</p>

Re: Good stuff for plan A... those in relational disaster #1004797 05/29/02 10:22 AM
Joined: Apr 2002 Posts: 342 L llama Member
llama Member L Joined: Apr 2002 Posts: 342	Wow Cali!<p>Thanks for the link. My H and I have a "date" tonight for me to see him play softball. This really helps. Thank you.<p>Llama

Re: Good stuff for plan A... those in relational disaster #1004798 05/29/02 10:34 AM
Joined: Jan 2002 Posts: 309 T Twinkles Member
Twinkles Member T Joined: Jan 2002 Posts: 309	Oh Cali - I just printed it out! <p>Thank you - and hang in there chica, you are one of my Plan A hero's! Don't forget to look around and count the blessings God has given you.

Re: Good stuff for plan A... those in relational disaster #1004799 05/30/02 12:18 AM
Joined: Mar 2002 Posts: 150 R rdvpmm Member
rdvpmm Member R Joined: Mar 2002 Posts: 150	Thanks Cali - Its nice to know that all the crap our WS's tell us is actually normal. I'm going to print it and leave it where my WH will find it - Maybe he will even read it [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img]

Re: Good stuff for plan A... those in relational disaster #1004800 05/30/02 12:42 AM
Joined: Oct 2001 Posts: 2,755 H Honey Member
Honey Member H Joined: Oct 2001 Posts: 2,755	I printed it out and I love it, great remeinder of where I was ... when things were going well... in my plan a.<p>Honey

Re: Good stuff for plan A... those in relational disaster #1004801 05/29/02 11:04 PM
Joined: Feb 2001 Posts: 1,465 Canada T Terrified Member
Terrified Member T Joined: Feb 2001 Posts: 1,465 Canada	Dear Cali, As is usual with your threads, this one is just PERFECT and it's made me feel inspired.<p>Thank-you. My prayers are with you.

Re: Good stuff for plan A... those in relational disaster #1004802 05/30/02 08:30 AM
Joined: May 2002 Posts: 151 B BetrayedAgain Member
BetrayedAgain Member B Joined: May 2002 Posts: 151	Yep!!!!<p>Printed and going up on my firdge right beside "standers affirmation". [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img]

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