My wife admitted to an EA with a co-worker a yer ago with very limited PA (kissing holding) says she would stop things before they progressed. also all events took place @ work and she says she ended things after about a month. she did confess these things with a little prodding and I did find evidence that she ended thing (in a letter to om) so why is it so difficult to believe that PA didnt evolve? Any women out there who have had EA's please help if you can. I did find out about them leaving for lunches together etc. but I dont think there was actully the opportunity there to fulfill PA. any help is appreciated.