Ok,
Well, I don't want to get too excited, but after our big blow-up last week, where I lb'd like nobody's business, I decided to calm down,quit accusing WH, and see what happened. I've given him space (he's living w/parents), I don't call him (I let him call me), and I act pleasant and happy when he calls. I keep telling him that I want to re-learn how to fill his love bank.
He told me this morning that he can't believe how nice I"ve been to him lately.
So, I feel a bit more hopeful since my post last week where I thought nothing could get any worse.
Maybe the fog is lifting a bit?
He tells me OW won't talk to him now (I wish it had been himself that ended it), but I'll take whatever I can get.
He does want to go to counseling.
So...I keep praying and plan A'ing. I know God wants to restore my marriage. I just thought he might do that overnight, but I'm learning...
KK

I'm thinking about adding in a 180 twist to the plan A, what do you all think?
KK

Sounds like a great idea and congratulations on your latest development. I wish you continued success.