As he has been doing, my H has been very affectionate and nice to me lately, and has also done a bunch off little odd jobs around the house that I've been asking him to do forever (I quit asking, he started doing...go figure). He talks and listens to me like he's interested in what I have to say, he snuggles with me at nite even if we don't have SF, all seems totally well...<p>But OW called our house last nite and he visited with her for a minute. I had a gut feeling it was her, so I went into our bedroom and checked the caller ID and it was. I noticed later that he'd cleared the caller ID in the living room (maybe trying to keep me from finding out). I didn't say anything about it, but was admittedly very distant for the rest of the evening. Anyway, I was sitting right there, so it wasn't an intimate conversation, but I think it's really cruel of him and her both to do that.<p>We are going out of town this weekend, and our D is going to my mom's for the weekend and for all next week. I'm thinking that maybe I should Plan A really hard (I think I've been doing well, based on how I feel and on his reaction) for the whole time and then think about going to Plan B. I don't think contact is going to stop until I toughen up and go to B, but I just don't know if I can do it so soon (d-day was April 19). Any thoughts from you "veterans?"