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H and I got into it over his claims that he repeatedly ended his affair, but that the way I behaved caused him to do it again.<p>Now, I don't buy that line a moment... I'm not resposible for his behavior.<p>However, I'd like to know if there are signs that I may have been blind to that will tell me whether he's ended it (or attempting to)?<p>We argued horribly while he was in the house and carrying on his affair, and there were times I was in so much pain because I either knew he was lying or believed he was lying. So, to make sure I have all angles here because perhaps I may not have noticed some subtle clues... can anyone shed light here to tell when an affair is ended or even just suspended?<p>History:
Married 23 years
4 daughters
Began EA (don't know date) around end of 2000
PA began sometime in 2001
H Moved out 4/2002
Hanging in here...
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Hi bluekeys:<p>There is NO WAY you will ever know you just have to build trust between your H and you and have POJA, and open and honest communication, otherwise, you will never know...<p>That is the harsh TRUTH...<p>thelion
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