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to all of you who supported me so much last summer and fall- an update. I'm sorry to report that despite my best efforts, my marriage will soon be over. I'm happy to report that, despite that fact, I am feeling strong and happy and really good about myself. We are working with a mediator, and that is going extremely well. He is being more than fair with me and the kids. I thought I might start spending some time here again, now that I feel healthy enough to maybe help someone the way you guys helped me. Now, can someone remind me how to put a paragraph break in a post???? LOL!!!
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Sorry to hear you bad news, and glad to hear your good news. Welcome back! (Oh, just hit <enter> after a paragraph and leave a blank space... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> )
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That doesn't seem to work for me, and I'm pretty sure this happened before, and if I could just locate it, I know the answer is rolling around my little brain somewhere, but thanks!
Oh well, for now, pardon my run on paragraphs!!
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Rotfl!!!!! It just doensn't work in preview. Oy vey!!!!!!
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Hey Rap,
Good to hear from you. Sorry about the M. Glad to hear that he is being fair to you and the children.
Sure would like to chat again. I am sooo proud of you. I think about you often. It is good to see yourself in a stronger place.
My old e-mail went belly up (too many MB e-mails - LOL!!) . So here is my new addy. MBOrchid@hotmail.com
Write or call. I put out an MB APB on you and several other old timers. Thanks for letting us know how you are doing. Hey listen, Redhat, PI and I had lunch a few weeks ago. Maybe we can get together for lunch sometime!?!??!?
Take care,
L.
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Orchid!!! Good to hear from you!! Made a note of your email, and will write soon, promise. As for lunch, I'd love that. Life is a little nuts right now, but I'll fill you in via email as soon as I can slow down a little.
I am in a much better place, indeed. And, for anyone out there, work this program!! It may not have saved my marriage, but it did not fail me!! I can sit happy in the knowledge that I DID EVERYTHING I COULD to make this thing work. WH refused to stop contact with OW, and by the time he asked me for a divorce, it really didn't even hurt (all that much). My love bank was nearly empty, and I was ready to move on. I feel good about every effort that I made, so I have no regrets, no "what ifs" in my mind. I believe that he has many, but that is no longer my problem. I hope he one day finds something resembling the peace that I have found. I credit the Marriage Builder program and for me, prayer, prayer and more prayer. So, even if you don't have reconcilliation, the effort is worth it. I can face the world (and the woman in the mirror) knowing that I gave it 100%. So, hang in there!! Plan A, Plan B!!!!! It works- it may not work for your marriage, but it will work for YOU!!!
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Wow Rap, I nominate you the MB Poster Girl of the month!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> I will await your call. take care, L.
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