I have redone my EN form for Steve and I thought of this post. I was so helped by "What do Men Want" and I wanted to pay it forward with some specifics if it would help someone.
AFFECTION: Doing anything together - wash cars, cook, dishes, laundry, showers, read paper, painting yard work.Being looked at with a smile because it is nice to see me. Look at me as if you are proud of me. Receiving a flower you picked because it was pretty and I would like it, being given anything because it would make me smile and making me smile is your goal. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Being kissed, hugged, grabbed for no reason anywhere - at the store, in a restaurant, while doing dishes, on the couch, in the car.Being referred to by a nicname. When you can't wait to tell me something. Having the bed turned down, coffee pot turned on, gas put in my car, being taken for a ride to no where. Hearing hopes, dreams,plans for our future. Hearing WE instead of I. Taking me with you to do something you enjoy. Notes in my car or bag. Phone call during the day to say hi - I love you. Being happy to hear from me during the day. Long sweet kisses. Hearing you laugh. Seeing you smile. Gentle touches. Hugs where I let go first. Tell me a joke, being sung to, laughing during sex in the afternoon. Surprise me with plans made for us, being taken out by you. Pay attention to me when we are out...talk to me...tell me I look nice...touch me...hold me hand...sit close to me. Tell me something I don't know. Hug me when I say something stupid and laugh and shake your head. Hear my ideas with respect and an open mind...give me the chance to do the same for you. Explain things patiently to me if I don't understand. Making love...not just sex. Tell me you love me for no reason. Hold me until I fall asleep.
Ahhh...so easy right?