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Just wondering, haven't seen a post in a while, maybe looking in wrong place? How are you two?
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Yes, many of us wonder about you???
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Last ^^^^ <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
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bump, cause I know you don't like to search for threads <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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Woopsie! I haven't been on, even to read, more than a couple of times since my last update. Long hours in front of the computer at work, and little desire to come home and do the same.... plus things have been going well lately on the home front.
I think my last update might have mentioned a vacation trip to California to reconnect. It was wonderful. We both had a very nice time and thoroughly enjoyed outselves and each other.
W has just sent a letter to her landlord telling them that she'll be moving out in a couple of weeks. She's ready to be husband and wife again, or more to the point, she believes that >>I<< am ready. I know that there are still issues to be worked out, very many of them on MY side.
There are still questions as to whether or not each of us can truly meet the other's EN, but we're going to make an effort to do so.
All in all, I feel good, I trust her, and I do love her. She's even saying those magic words quite a bit, too.
Just a word to anyone just beginning the struggle: Believe that it can work, every day.
Thank you all SO much for the help you've given me over the last year. Without this place, I don't know WHAT I would have done... but I'm pretty sure it would have been without the hope of reconciliation.
Sorry I missed your original post. I'll try to keep a closer watch on this place. Who knows, maybe I can be of some help to someone, as you all have been to me.
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YEAH!!!!!!!
I am SO happy to hear this!! Good for you two!! Let her know that this is a GREAT TIME to come here to read and post. She will find all kinds of support here, as YOU know. It may seem awkward at first, but take it from a Former WS, it gets so much easier to deal with problems at home knowing there is support out there.
Congrats to you both! We'll keep you in our prayers!
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Thanks Kev,
after following your struggles for so long, it is good to see you happy. I hope things continue to go well.
Same with you Mrs WLD, good to see you happy.
All the best to both of you.
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Still Seeking...thanks for the post, I'll let H know <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> We are planning a night out on our 1st Anniv. of being back together. Right now is a hard time for me because it was a year ago that I wa getting rid of OM. So a lot of triggers are happening. H knows about it and I told him I may need extra love right now, feeling insecure. He was/is happy to oblige. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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