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My husband met this woman, and became friends with her. We were having problems and he was unhappy at home. He started hanging around and talking to this woman on the phone on a daily basis. He says he is happy at home now and doesn't have much at all to do with this woman anymore. He swears they were just friends and they never had sex, nor did he ever want to. She still calls him. I am ready to tell her to leave my husband alone. How can I do this without embarassing myself. I asked him if it was ok for me to tell her this, he said it was.
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by worried2death:
<strong> He swears they were just friends and they never had sex, nor did he ever want to. She still calls him. I am ready to tell her to leave my husband alone. How can I do this without embarassing myself. I asked him if it was ok for me to tell her this, he said it was.</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">He started the relationship. He should be the one to end it. You shouldn't need to worry about embarrassing yourself; you haven't done anything to be embarressed about.
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W2D:
Look up sample "no contact" letters on this website. Get your H 2 write one, both of you sign it, and send it 2 this OW. Then ignore any attempts on her part 2 contact either one of you forever.
Take care,
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I agree with what the others said, this is certainly not up to YOU to tell her to stop calling. She is not your friend nor is she calling you therefore, it is NOT YOU who should tell her to stop, but HIM.
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How about this...it's his mess, let him clean it up! Have you considered an unlisted phone number??
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