I spoke to my W today...she says she may be coming home as early as next weekend (discussion focused on whether there was enough room in the garage to fit all the boxes or whether we needed to rent a storage unit).

Also. a few months ago (ok now, don't laugh) I sent our story to Dr. Phil...when he was starting up his new show...they wanted guests to tell their story...Well, I submitted ours and forgot about it because I figured they would get thousands of them...They called yesterday and wanted to know if I would still like to do the show!...I said sure but I didn't know if my W would want to. They called her and she politely declined...but when I spoke to her today she said she wasn't sure if she believed it was really one of his producers. I told her "call them back and talk to them". She said no it was no big deal, but she did ask if I had a copy of the e-mail. I told her no because it was submitted in a field on their web-site but I said I'd call them back and see if they had a copy they could send to my W. (Have to do that on Monday).

Anyway, I guess it all comes down to this: I would appreciate your prayers and advice on how to be appraoachable without pressuring her to reconcile. I'm still on my knees and praying that God will show His love for her through me by my honoring, cherishing, respecting and LOVING her. I know it's in His hands...

Tom