My wife may be back this weekend!! Not because of any attempt to reconcile on her part but because she misses our D. I'm not sure how to react to this because our last conversation about it ended with her comment "The issue isn't you any more, it's about me". (???)

My thoughts are that I should say something like, "I know this was a difficult thing for you to do. I'd like to know what you want me to act like...because I'm very confused about what you need from me right now. Do you just want space...will any attempts by me to meet your EN's just make you feel pressured"?

It's a long story but basically, before she left, she didn't want me giving her flowers, cards etc because she said it made her feel guilty. I'm not even sure what the living arrangements are to be...

I know I need to be approachable without pressuring her and to just try to meet whatever EN's she has (if she'll allow that), but...

I don't think she's ready to fill out the EN Questionnaire yet....

HELP!!

<small>[ October 28, 2002, 01:20 PM: Message edited by: lostinsimi ]</small>

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