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Dear friends,
I believe that's a felony in TX! WH and OW have sent out wedding invitations for a date in Dec. Our divorce will not be final until WH and I both take a parenting class (on how kids cope with divorce). Then, in TX, or at least in our county, the spouse has to wait 30 days before he/she can remarry. THis will probably not be until at least Feb. 2003. Is this THE FOG, or is is MENTAL ILLNESS???????? he cannot possibly be in his right mind. WH has not told his own parents, much less his own children, or myself. I had to find out through another person to whom WH owes a lot of money!!!!
Interesting, huh? I feel like ratting him out to the cops, but i guess i'll just let his little ceremony take place. OW gets the big prize, and i hope she enjoys it!
KK (I'm actually coping pretty well, please, please pray for my 3 kids!)

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(((((((((((((((((((((kk))))))))))))))))))))))))))

That is sooo unreal ! I will pray for both you and the kids. What kind of a M will that be when you don't even tell anyone about the wedding? Interesting timing though. What does it take to get a m lisc in TX? Will it show up then that he is still M ????

AAAARRRRRGGGGGHHHHH - sorry had to vent. The audacity of the WS's is amazing.

God Bless,

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Hi KK, Thinking of you... they will not be legally married, just completely fogged.

Hugs KK, and to your sweet kids ,they are all wonderful! They will be there by your side as your wonderful kids, ....

Tonight W, my 4 yr old, drew me a picture, me and him and his brother.. he is thinking in terms of the 3 of us.... that is all he knows after the last yr.

I think his big brother drew a pic of the 4 of us right after dad left... but I doubt seriously that he would do that now....

It is going to be ok- prayers to our Lord for you and your great kids.

Honey

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WGTT and Honey,
Thanks for the warm replies. WGTT, i'm not sure how he's going to get a marriage license, pretty bizarre, isn't it? I will let you know more when i find out.

Yeah, sure don't know what kind of marriage that's going to be...

Love to all,
KK

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I'm imagining you sneaking into the back of the church- when the minister asks if anyone knows of an impediment to the marriage, you jump up and say "Yeah, ME! I'm his wife!"

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Hi again,

Just wanted you to know I am praying for your strength through this trial.

This week what we say in church on sundays... has been going through my head...

It is in loving that we are loved, in pardoning that we are pardoned, forgiving that we are forgiven... Do your best to be kind and loving.. that is all you need to be right now.. even if it is not deserved by ws. Be kind right up to the end, but protect you and the kids! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> I know you are.

I wish I had had the strength to be kind and loving in the beginning of this in spite of what I was being treated like.... I know I learned from being a reactionary lb queen that it does not pay.... Just do what you can to protect you.

I know you are.

Keep taking c are of you, one breath at a time. Our father is with you, let him hold you and help you be strong.

Honey


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