WH picked up his 10 yr old from soccer practice. he told me he wanted to speak to me about the papers.
i was prepared w/the makeup, hair do..etc. what i wasnt prepared for is we were really gonna talk.
we sat alone in the kitchen to go over the "uncontested divorce" papers. i looked over every page. then i said, so do you hate me. he said, no i dont hate me. he said you had 6 years to learn how to cook, i said, wait a minute, listen hear, that is not true. you know we had a agreement that i did finances, kid appts and bills and you cook. he is a cook in the army..and my cooking sucks.he didnt argue.
i told him that the little one (our 5 yr old) crys herself to sleep and i almost busted out tears, he got up to leave, he said that he doesnt want to see me cry, i begged him not to go and let me talk. his face looked like he wanted to cry when i was telling him the little one crys for him alot.
i told him the kids need and want him, and he said i love them and want to see them. i tried to emphasize that 2 hours at mcds once a week will not suffice forever!!!!!! i said you need to get your own place. he said no he doesnt want to be alone. and that if he does it he would be doing what his dad and i want. i said, then u think about it. then you can have your kids over to sleep with you.
he seemed to be getting flustered, and i said i know you dont want me, but dont leave your kids behind.
he even agreed (verbally) as we discussed divorce that i will have the kids EVERY holiday. can u believe that.
WHAT IS WITH THIS GUY!!!!!!!! <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />
