Yesterday made me realize alot of things. As I know there is no excuse for cheating on my H but I now know why I went in that direction.
My H wanted more money from our income tax check, I have given him enough since last week. He harrasses me so much and I can't take it anymore and give in. Yesterday he kept calling and telling me to go to the bank and get more money out. I said ok so he would leave me alone. He said he wanted to take our 2 sons to the movies. Well he shows up at the house with his gf and her 3 daughters thinking the boys would want to go with them. He has never sat and told them where he was living and about her.
He then asked me where his money was and I said I never went to the bank. I was upstair getting dressed and he said I will be back for the boys in 10 minutes after I argued with him they didn't want to go. He then called and said I got both sets of keys to your car and I am not giving them back to you until you go to the bank to get my money. I said how am I suppose to go when I don't have a way to get there. He told me take a taxi. I was planning on going shopping to go get candy for the kids Easter baskets. My H said how do I know you aren't lying that you had to get candy after I lied and said I was going to the bank. Well by now I was on the verge of a nervous breakdown. My 10 year old get on the phone crying and told my H you are ruining our Easter and you are a moran.
After awhile his gf calls and she tells me I talked to him and he said that she can drive me in my car to the bank, I said no way. I will find a car to use so I can have the kids have a 1/2 desent Easter. So I rented a car. I called my atty that is doing the support case and he said there wasn't anything to do because the car is both our names. He said Monday call him I have to get a Protection from abuse. His gf's daughters were in the truck with him while he is saying and doing all this stuff to me.
I realize now he is a very controlling person and I am coming to the conclusion I am better off with out my H. I also told him I have to come up with $725.00 for another temporary plate for my teeth on Monday. We were in a car accident in Dec and I lost 9 teeth, broke my jaw, sinus bones and nose. He said that was too bad don't get them then.
I also know my H has no heart, he doesn't care about his kids, he said if I gave him more money he would take the kids. He never even called to wish them a happy Easter. He didn't care if they got baskets, but his gf's kids would because they got candy yesterday for them and I am sure they are having Easter dinner together with her kids, while I am spending the day with them and taking them out to eat. They know who loves them, me and that is all that counts.
