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Your answer is as good as mine at this point. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Everything is set on my side. I've told Eric about it (I'm not sure what, if anything I can tell the twins), and my lawyer's office has contacted H's lawyer to confirm it's all set.

All that's left is a phone call from my IL's to me, to confirm they'll be here on Saturday May 10th at 10am to pick up the boys, and return them at 6pm.

If it does happen, the timing couldn't be better. May 11th is their baptism, and it will be nice to have the day before to get all the preparations in order, without having to worry about meals, naps, juice, snacks, fights over toys, etc. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Now, all I can do is wait for them to call. If I start feeling too anxious, I'm sure I'll call them instead... but I'm going to try and avoid that. It's THEIR responsibility to call.

The minor details still need to be ironed out... that was one of the items up for discussion at the case settlement that was supposed to happen tomorrow (but was cancelled due to my lawyer being called to trial). I want them to be contacting me as far in advance as possible for visitations. Ideally, I'd like a schedule set months in advance. I definitely don't want them calling a few days before each time (although it's usually the day before)... they've always done it that way, and I HATE that. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

I kept my IC appt for Wednesday. I'm thinking I'm still going to need it anyways. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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I forgot to add this: for those that aren't familiar with my story, this visitation issue is a HUGE event.

The boys haven't seen their dad since November 24, 2002 <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> (although Eric did see him for about 10 minutes on December 24th).

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Thinking of you.


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