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New news is killing me......
#1071859 05/07/03 10:59 PM
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over the past year and a half me and my wife have gone through counceling and I thought it was going well. At first she said she just "kissed a stranger and that was it,"
Now I year later after everything she tells me is was a guy that I work everyday around, and they had sex all over his house with another woman present...Im back on meds..How can I servive seeing this complete jerk who knew me and my 3 kids everyday?
I hate him...
If only there were laws for breaking and entering
a marriage... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
Re: New news is killing me......
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Is he married? If he is then consider contacting his W and tell her that he cheated on her with your W. Although it sounds vengeful to do so, it's merit is twofold:

1.His W finds out what kind of man she is married to and can decide whether to continue being married to him or divorce him.

2.He'll know that you finally know he got involved with your W, and will not feel safe in ever again trying to seduce her.

I can understand the reasoning why a WS would not reveal the gory details of the A to the BS, BUT the problem with holding back vital info about the A, is that once said info is known to the BS, its like d-day all over again. If your W had come clean one year ago, you'd probably be well on your way to marital AND personal recovery, and would not be here emotionally bleeding.

Keep us posted.

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