I am in plan B after counseling with Harleys
and have a few questions from people here.
I love being away from him and the kids love it also. He comes to see them and acts all nice like nothing is wrong. I read HNHN and had tried in the past to meet all his needs - couldnt because of the Emotional Abuse. He listened to me one day when I told him about MB and read two chapers of HNHN.
He quit reading it in the middle of SF. I have not had any SF from him in about 7 years.
Maybe he doesnt want that anymore?

I am at college right now and have lots of job offers. He thinks I am returning when school starts for the kids. He is in for a surprise.

My question is
What can I expect next?
Will he file for a divorce?
Has anyone else been at this point?

I have read all the books - Emotional abuse and dr harleys.

i think I am hoping for a peaceful end.
I think plan B has been proof I am ready to end it.
any advise