Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum
This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at
mbrestored@gmail.com
|
|
|
|
Joined: Aug 2002
Posts: 71
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Aug 2002
Posts: 71 |
I need a MC and not sure which I should get. I think I would be more comfortable with a female but if I can get my husband to one I think he would take what the male says more seriously. Just wanted other womens opinion from you who have had both sexes and which ones did you prefer. I plan to go myself first. My husband still denies any affair so sort of dead end there but if I can get him to go to MC with me eventually maybe he will stop denying. Thanks
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 |
I think it depends on who you are. I seem to relate to men much better because I have a low tolerance for feeling based thinking or sentimentalism that I experienced with some female counselors. I also noticed that my H related much better to a man. But again, it really depends on your own personalities, IMO.
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 |
CF, but I wonder why you think he would admit it to a counselor if he won't admit it to you, someone he knows? That seems extremely unrealistic to me.
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Aug 2002
Posts: 71
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Aug 2002
Posts: 71 |
Melody, I am hoping when faced with going to a MC he will not want to go through all that and will finally tell me the truth. He would rather have teeth pulled Im sure than go BUT he knows he would have to and would go if I asked him. He always says, how can they help? Don't know, thats their job I tell him. He would hate going I assure you. Just hoping the threat will work. Thanks
|
|
|
|
0 members (),
555
guests, and
54
robots. |
|
Key:
Admin,
Global Mod,
Mod
|
|
|
Forums67
Topics133,625
Posts2,323,524
Members72,035
| |
Most Online6,102
Jul 3rd, 2025
|
|
|
|
|
|
