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Star* Fish, can I ask you one question? Do you think I even have a chance?
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Yes chere. I think you do have chance. Don't give up yet. I wouldn't tell you so if I didn't believe it. Take heart! Good night....try to rest. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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Thank you, I hope so, I am scared. I love that dum a$$! I wish I could Sleep I am begining to forget what that is. I just pray and read and wonder.
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NO2... are you out there... Are you the honorary plan b queen... we have a lovely selection of crowns to choose from..all of which block alien mind waves... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> And we do carry a nice selection of caps for the Plan B kings as well...so no one has to be subjected to alien mind control.. hope you are well ARK
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BUMPING AGAIN..
just hoping you are well...
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Just a quick welcome to the PlanB club. Sorry you have to be here but I think it's the best place for you now, because I think you have a really great chance of turning things aound. I have bumped the Plan B Support Group thread if you would like to post a bit there. You are in good company. Be strong.
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Dear Mrs. Nose,
I pray that you find peace in your decision to limit initiating conversations with your husband. I pray that your relationship with your children is becoming ever more supportive to them. I pray that you will be increasingly able to put aside your feelings of betrayal by your husband, and that you will be able to increasingly focus on your daily tasks at hand. I pray that you will have increasing success in handling your daily tasks and challenges. I pray that lawyers, and others working on your behalf, will lucidly explain your full range of options, and will execute your desires with professional dilligence, achieving the most favorable possible outcomes for you. I pray that when it is time to sleep, that you will be able turn all your problems over to God, and sleep peacefully, with full confidence and resignation to Him, while He works his Will. I pray that you will dream of new improvments in your situations, and that you will awake each day, with an alertness to possibilities that had previously been unseen.
In Jesus Name I pray, Amen.
Quipper
Married 28 years and still struggling
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No2,
We are all here for you. Good for you for sending the letter. It will, believe me, bring you peace. Might take a little while, but it will come.
Please come on over to the Plan B Support Thread. Look for my name as topic starter. We welcome all over there. We vent, we support each other, provide lots of cyber hugs. We post even if there is nothing to update on.
We're just there for each other.
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Thank you all very much. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> I am doing ok. Just had a min. and seen that you all were here and wondering. I thank you for that, I will write more later. Ark, I hope I will be able to see the crowns to pick from soon. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> Quipper thank you for having my family in your prayers. Isgril an 23 I will join you all soon over there in Plan B support. Just needed time to think, feeling lost and you all know how I am feeling no need to explain. Take care and Thanks
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Just needed time to think, feeling lost and you all know how I am feeling no need to explain. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">((((((((((No2nos}}}}}}}}}}}}
You betcha, we know!
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Thanks I needed that. Right back at ya. There are so many good people here it is a shame we have to met this way, but I am glad I have. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
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Hello, How is everyone? I don't know what I am doing? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> I think of you guys all the time and I here you and see that 2x4 comeing at me! lol Ok, H said he wanted to talk after we got the house under control. Well, I think it is just about there. He still has not read the Plan B letter. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> Why will he not read it? Soooo I have just been in a quit plan b when he is here and doing some 180's. He asked me the other day where is my happy,playful (then my name) and hit my knee. I said, she is here just on the rollcoaster ride from hell. Today I was about on my own little way and he came into the kichten and put his hand holding my elbo and said I'll see you Sunday, The look in his eyes were saying so much more. I know you all know what I am saying. I don't know maybe I am reaching for the sky maybe I am going nuts. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Then he said bye again and I said, see ya and then again when he got out to his car he said bye again. Why was I outside because he and YSon was playing with the dog before he left and that was were Yson was and I went out to get him and watch him playing with his dog I was in the house when they were playing and Yson wanted to show me what they were doing. I have asked him to change from their checking account back to using ours. He said he would. We will see. What am I look at here? What is going on? What do i do? I know I a real Dum a$$. All I keep doing is working this through my head. I wish it would stop! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> Ark <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> and all please do not give up on me help me I know I have a hard head, but I do here you and keep it running through my brain. (it is a seed planted) Sometime I am scared to post lololol knowing and feeling what I did was more then likely wrong. I read these folks saying I wish I would have went to Plan B sooner and it is hitting me hard now and I think I can do it to it fully. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> <small>[ September 13, 2003, 12:18 AM: Message edited by: No2nos ]</small>
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You don't need a 2x4, you're hard enough on yourself! Here's a big ole hug instead!
Ok, now dust yourself off and get started. Make a plan, you know what you need to do, you've seen it all here!
Even if WH hasn't read the PB Letter, once you start acting like Plan B, he'll say what's up, & you direct him to the letter.
The point is, your WH is a cake-eater! And you have to stop making it easy for him. He's in no hurry to end the A, because he doesn't have to, he's getting his needs met on all fronts!
I have been in and out of Plan B, it's tough, I know, but it's the only protection we have from this mess!
You can do it girl!! If you feel you've plan A'd enough and the frustration and pain is too much, time for Plan B!
Others will give you advice, I'm just trying to give you a pep talk for now, hang in there!
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((((((((((n2n)))))))))))))) Oops, I forgot my can of whoopa$$! Shugah is right chere....your husband is a cake eater extra ordinaire! He has some big cahunas I'll give him that...but each time you allow him to manipulate you in this way....your ability to end this affair becomes weaker and weaker and weaker What would happen if you cut him off completely???? I'll tell ya. The OW would have to fill all of his needs. IF SHE COULD....he wouldn't keep you dangling! Let her do it. Let her fail. Be unavailable!!!! Completely!!! If the low risk approach is going no where....pretend Dr. Phil is in front of you saying "Is this working for ya????". If it isn't....and it isn't....try something else. Sure it's a risk....all of life is a risk. If you need a cheering section.....you got it. "Two bits, four bits six bits...a dollar! All for N2N stand up and holler!" Goooooooooooo Plan B!!!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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You all made me cry thank you, its a good cry. Your words help so much. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> I know I can do this. Look who is backing me a whole lot of 2x4's.lolol Thanks
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*PEPSI COLA, COCA COLA, ROYAL CROWN
YA GOTTA HYNOTIZE
PLAN B-ATIZ'IM
KNOCK HIM DOWN!!!!"
Don't cry chere....I'm trying to make you laugh!
Each time your H makes contact with you....it prolongs the ending of the affair. If he won't read the letter.....go dark. When he can't contact you.....he'll read it.
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Strawberry Shortcake, Huckleberry Pie,
Don't let WH make you cry!
Are we in it, well I guess,
Plan B, Plan B,
YES, YES, YES!!!
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*giggle* *giggle*....Oh shugah!
YES YES YES
Here's my cajun cheer:
HOT BOUDIN
COLD CUSH CUSH
COME ON N2
PUSH PUSH PUSH!!!!!!!!!
yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay Plan B!!!!!
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Send his plan B to the OW..they live together correct..mail one to her... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> I hope you have made serious plans to go out on Sunday... I'm talking S E R I O U S dang I gotta go look good plans...where you meet him at the door...in a happy upbeat sunshiny mood...and say...I gotta get go gotta go gotta go...back in a bit... and go go go go go go go go go go go go go go... and mention on the way out.."you know this isn't working...pretty soon you're gonna have to take son a little more consistantly...no reason you should have so much time off playing.. while i do all the work...but never mind...we'll talk later...gotta go!!!!!!!!!!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> " mystery and NO CONTACT... you know what I mean.. also I believe I offered once before to take up a collectio for the stamp...the offer is now again on the table...this time plan b letters to him AND OW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you deserve better than this perpetual game... now where is the 2X4..I can't seem to find it either... ARK
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No2nos,
Can you email me? Got something to tell you.
ISGIRL123@hotmail.com
Thanks.
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