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Can someone tell me how to communicate here. I have posted 3 or 4 things. But I don't know if I am in the right area, how to respond to responses, how to read certain codes, My problem is about an affair that my wife is having, there is no doubt that one exist, I am just not certain who, I am 99% it is an old flame of 20 years ago when she was 18.
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Hi wp
Use the Post Reply button to responded to responses, as for codes here are a few if you don't understand the letters
W is WIfe
WW is Wondering Wife
FWW is Former Wonder Wife
BS is betrayed spouse
BH is betrayede husband
A is affair
OP is other person
OM is other man
OW is other woman
OWH is other woman's husband
OMW is of course other mans wife.
There are a heck of a lot of them. I'll see if i cant find the rest. There was a topic in Just Found Out about them.
You've had a few replies aready in your other topic.
I'm for telling everyone if your WW doesn't want to end the A. A's only grow when in the shadow. Exposing them to family, friends, and to bosses at work brings reality to the situation. And, informing the OMW starts the process from the other direction.
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Click on this link for a complete list of ac Acronyms list The buttons to reply to posts in both on the tops and bottoms of page.
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you need to be 100% certain there is an affair and who it is. Soooo do some snooping. There was a post not long ago about phone recorders for your home and a digital tape recorder for the car if she uses cell phone. Get them at radio shack and then you can find out what you need and then when you confront her you will have FACTS.
Good luck and read all that you can here especially on Just Found Out posts.
DD
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Is it legal to tape a conversation that you are not a part of.
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Formerly wp, I was afraid that might stand for something, do I go to one specific forum and enter my information, I have several about the same matter in different forums, but I don't know if I am in the right one or not.
What is the difference between posting a poll and and reply, if someone responds, can I respond back to them.
Please help.
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FC,
For now post your story and vent here. Read the concepts section above, read the books: Surviving an Affair and His Needs/Her Needs both are by Dr. W. Harley.
That's for starters. Find a good MC or call MB and setup a phone counseling session with Steve, Cerri or Jennifer. They are real good.
Don't worry about posting as a poll. Your issues sound like you could get the best support here. Please go ahead and let us know how you are doing now.
Know this, you can't fully control nor properly reason with someone who is fully engaged in an A. Learn to work on yourself 1st.
take care,
L.
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