Yep, that's right. If WH quits MT today, if it is our last session, I am going to go to my IC and get a lawyer reference and after I find out my rights, I will send Plan B letter.

I already have a committed 3rd party for finances and kids. My love bank is being depleted rapidly by his love for, and concern over, the OW.

In fact, that would be why he would quit MT, is because I am pushing him to give up his only contact with her, Scouts. He says I'm trying to take his boys away from him. I am doing no such thing! There are tons of other Troops in this city. WH has all kinds of excuses for not giving up his "fix."

So, if he quits MT, he can have only his crumbling fantasy to keep him company. And he'll have to find someone else to yell at and be angry at. Because I won't be his mental "punching bag." Not anymore.

ARK will not have to whack me over the head anymore. Well, not very often anymore, anyway.

Lots of love and prayers. Amy