Orchid - Kamara needs help. She has gone to another country and is trying to talk to her WH. I know that you have met her. Please try to help her.

Just saw this. Ok.

L.

Orchid, as usual you are helping people out. I don't know what to tell Kamara.I have been trying to keep up with the MB program, but not doing too well.

Hi Believer,

I just replied to her. We had a loong talk last week before she left. Reality is setting in but she was aware this could happen. Still it hurts to see.

However her being somewhat forwarned will help lessen the impact. I worry about her health. Her H is still babbling but not doing a good job. The fact that he is guilt ridden enough for others to see is a good sign for the M and against the A.

Only time will tell which way this will go. In the mean time Kamara will get stronger with her resolve.

Thanks for helping her. I respect your help on the board. There is much pain and suffering. I did some of my best posts when I had to lean real hard on this board for my emotional support. Tapping on this keyboard was therapuetic for me. I guess you can tell by my # of posts. LOL!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Please take care Believer. While your H still seems caught up in the fog, it does blow over. I may share some stories later of other MBers who dealt with a few quirks in their A stories that would make chills go down your spine. Needless to say, those MBers survived and the OWs did not. One case the WS came home the other WS is still out there. The point is that the MBer survived. We have to take it all 1 step at a time. By doing so we can plan our path wisely and reduce our regrets.

Hugz,
L.