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If WS prior to affair and initial knowledge of A was distant physically and mentally to BS and now is engaging in conversation regarding life in general and of the situation. And has initiated sex . . . something not done in a long time.
Are these signs of WS making effort to reconnect with BS?
I'm thinking he is coming out of the fog. He will be happy with me for 2 days and then distances himself for a day. He'll talk but he is less forthcoming. Then he is back again wanting to talk things out. He seems to enjoy mentioning our historical good times. I can't tell if he is mourning these times, thinking it is over or that he mentions them as a way to share good feelings with me and it being a good thing.
I feel like I'm the one in a fog. I lack clear thought. Someone give me a take on these things.
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not sure that i can offer much, i'm still relatively new at this myself. however, to me these things you mention look like good signs. how i dream of signs like that. however, i would also probably err on the side of caution that maybe this is the quiet before the storm. i don't know you whole story so it would be really hard to say. hopefully some others will reply and you'll get more feedback. prayers to you.
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