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After receiving a separation letter 10 days ago, I refused to move out. WW wife wouldn't move out either because of our girls. Now we seem to be stuck. WW says there has been NC for 3 weeks. I know her ENs now but she will not open her heart to me at this point. What do you when you aren't getting the chance to meet WS needs?? Don't think you can call this a recovery when I'm the only one willing to commit at this time. I even asked for a date night so that we could keep the communication going but she said she wasn't ready for that.
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not familiar w/your story or your situation, but wanted to say please don't give up! yes, the lack of motivation on the part of your W is disheartening but just continue to follow your words w/your actions. even though we (BS) are not "allowed" to meet the EN of our WS thus making lovebank deposits, if we are able to prevent any lovebank withdrawals then we are still doing what is needed. there's been lots of posts related to this subject and again, all i can say is hang in there and follow the MB principles. prayers to you.
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