Are these two former affair partners? Beats me.

Is VR this RB person? I don't know. This reminds me of the is SUDFB really SNL or just another smarta$$ with an attitude.

You all have made your accusation now you need to relax and let these posters speak for themselves. Clearly, if they were each others former partner . . . they need to move along and not cross-post.

If it is such a huge concern, have the mod's check th i.p. address of the posters. They may be able to solve this mystery.

<small>[ May 20, 2004, 02:53 PM: Message edited by: Comfortably Numb ]</small>

WAKE up people! yes, these two people are former Affair partners! VR IS R&R spree or whatever she is calling herself now! Lost in Life is the WH of another poster here on this board!

The BS of LIL is very confused...as is everyone else.

I am NOT jumping to conslusions here. Go back and read the posts to and from each of them. Istn' it funny how LIL has only recently registered and one of his very few posts are under this thread...his former Lover???

I do know for a fact that these two are former lovers. Go back and read LIL posts in his own thread. Maybe LIL is trying to really work now and R&R is trying to sabbotage. I dont know. But it is not helping the BS here at all. She is very hurt and very confused. either way <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

I am NOT jumping to conslusions here.
Sure you are. It may not be much of a jump though.

I do know for a fact that these two are former lovers.
You mean you are pretty darn sure from what you have read?
Or you know for a fact? Pictures, you saw them together, what?

If they are or they aren't, lighten up.
All this was PRIOR to the text below.

p.s.
this is from lil.
You are all correct in the fact the R&P Spree is the OW,however my W and you are the ones that brought that to my attention.

<small>[ May 20, 2004, 03:53 PM: Message edited by: Chris -CA123 ]</small>

RJ I posted this to Lost in Life

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> LIL ok so you want to work on your M and I did start this thread. Ok so if you want to make this right get a new email on Yahoo or something and reregister under a new name and don't post under this one anymore. I'm going to suggest the same to RJ. I wouldn't post my story because most of us here have it. I'd just post with questions that you want answered or if you have suggestions. I don't know if anyone else is but I'm willing to give you the benefit of the doubt here so don't dissapoint us just reregister ok.
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">If you also want to work on your M do the same or go to the other sight that someone suggested here. It's the only right thing to do.

If you read 'Lost in Life's thread, he admitted that he and 'very regretful' (New ID R&PSpree) were 'former' lovers.

So momto3boys instincts were correct!


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<small>[ May 20, 2004, 03:59 PM: Message edited by: Blessed TIME ]</small>

Ewwwww. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

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<small>[ May 20, 2004, 04:13 PM: Message edited by: Octobergirl ]</small>

oh for pete's sake...TRIPLE sigh now...

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Oh well, it is good to think of this 'soap opera' thread as it takes away from our own problems for awhile! </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">you seem to forget (or did you ever stop to consider) these are REAL people (usually <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> ) with REAL problems...

they are struggling hard...

this is NOT, I repeat NOT!!! a soap opera...

c'mon now...are you helping or hurting? where's the respect for anyone involved in the mess?

maybe I'm wrong...maybe they are getting cheap thrills out of posting to each other under assumed names on the very board that promotes M building...

if so, then the best thing would be to ignore them...

otherwise, YOU are the one that is playing a GAME, a very DANGEROUS game, with someone else's M...

there are kids involved here folks...small children, I believe in both families...

so if you can't say something at least intended to be helpful in some way, how about not saying anything at all???

or start a "funny" thread about all the dumb things people do on the MB forum...awed

We aren't jumping to conclusions. This site USED to be a sanctuary to LIL's wife - however when OW started posting here she left - out of RESPECT and to protect herself. She knew her H was reading here and started posting as well. So needless to say - she's devestated once again.

I wouldn't be a part of a lynch mob without SUBSTANTIAL proof. If I'm wrong this time - I'll eat crow and both my feet.