On June 4th, it will be 3 months since my WH and I separated. I only ran into him once, and that is when he was shopping with the OW. All I said to him is "How could you" and walked away.

He did call me sweetheart in front of the OW, I just gave him a glance back and continued walking.

Once in three months, and it was by accident. I miss him so much and I'm so afraid I am becoming a distance memory.

For fourteen years, we were in each other lives. Loving and caring for one another.

I know affairs usually don't last, but the OW is so malipulating and she is after one thing: my in-laws money.

The OW is going to wait a long time. My in-laws are a couple on the go, I don't see them passing anytime soon. Constantly traveling and enjoy the riches of life. They called me yesterday, from their vacation home, and told me that they love me and how sorry they are on how their son has treated me. They told me to just keep my chin up. I know they are hurting too, since he choose the OW over them also. They have been so supportive and they reassure me that the OW will never be part of the family.

I'm trying to stay focus and take it day by day. I'm just afraid, the longer the separation, the greater of the chance he is not coming back.

I know the OW divorce will become final soon, and she will be working on my H to get a divorce.
He doesn't have any grounds to file. My WH has never mention anything about a divorce to me.

Maybe I'm overreacting, it has only been three months. I guess I'm having one of my days of feeling lonely and blue. They say "Out of sight, out of mind" but I'll think positive "Absence makes the heart grow fonder."

I'll just have to patient and believe our love is strong and we can make it through this. Eventually he'll have to see the OW for what she is. I'll let her hang herself. In the meantime, I will work on myself, and I know whatever happens I will be a stronger person because of it. Thanks for listening to me.