I am trying to put myself in my H shoes, and I am hoping you can help me understand what he is feeling or thinking.


Is there something that your wife could have said or done differently that would have helped you change your mind and come home at some point?

Is there something that they said or did that made a difference when you were lost in the fog?

What were your thoughts toward your wife when you were in the affair...anger, frustration, bitterness, guilt, annoyed, sad, scared etc....?

Thank you,

Shul