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Would someone please tell me what this means #1141685 05/30/04 06:47 PM
Joined: Mar 2004 Posts: 376 C Cyn1018 Member
Cyn1018 Member C Joined: Mar 2004 Posts: 376	I recently got a letter from WS and in it it said, "I want you to know that this past year and a half with OW hasn't been the easiest for me when it comes to you. I somehow hope you know this." So my question, what does this mean? I don't want to ask him just yet. I was wondering what anyone thought.

Re: Would someone please tell me what this means #1141686 05/30/04 06:54 PM
Joined: Jan 2004 Posts: 1,925 L lostnhurt Member
lostnhurt Member L Joined: Jan 2004 Posts: 1,925	Cyn, I wish I can tell you. What plan are you in? Are you seperated?

Re: Would someone please tell me what this means #1141687 05/30/04 07:14 PM
Joined: Sep 2001 Posts: 5,906 A ark^^ Member
ark^^ Member A Joined: Sep 2001 Posts: 5,906	It doesn't mean anything...it's a big pile of schlock.... people who want to communicate honestly about themselves...do not..I repeat... DO NOT send cryptic emails...that leave the onus of figuring out what it means on the person they sent it to... It's a shallow attempt to gain sympathy... "look how hard it is for me the adulterer.. I feel bad I feel conflicted... It hard to keep all the lies straight... can't address the fact I am the one causing it... just poor me..." you should 10000000000000000000% ignore THAT email...never ever mention it.. if asks babble back... "yep I read it"....and change the subject...'sure is sunny out there eh?" Your other choice is to engage in his nebulous power struggle...of can't you see how this hurts him also..... don't do it... ignore this kind insane babble...each and every time you hear it and see it.. respond only to rational thoughts... just don't hold your breath... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> ark

Re: Would someone please tell me what this means #1141688 05/30/04 08:34 PM
Joined: Nov 2003 Posts: 3,380 O Octobergirl Member
Octobergirl Member O Joined: Nov 2003 Posts: 3,380	Geeze. If that's not one for the ole FOG statement archives I don't know what is. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> Ignore the letter.It just goes to show you how messed up your WH is. O

Re: Would someone please tell me what this means #1141689 05/30/04 08:42 PM
Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas M MelodyLane Member
MelodyLane Member M Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas	</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Cyn1018: <strong> "I want you to know that this past year and a half with OW hasn't been the easiest for me when it comes to you. I somehow hope you know this." . </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Poor thing, it's been very hard on him to selfishly destroy his marriage and ruin your life. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />

Re: Would someone please tell me what this means #1141690 05/30/04 08:51 PM
Joined: Jun 2000 Posts: 8,069 R Resilient Member
Resilient Member R Joined: Jun 2000 Posts: 8,069	Translation: "Because this is all about me and my selfishness, I want you to wait and be there for me in case I ever make up my mind who I want, you or OW, maybe both". I agree with the others, please do not respond in any fashion. Lv, jo

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