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Just started Plan B and WH was taking kids for the weekend (first time in the 5 months since he moved into his own place).
He wanted to take them camping and I agreed to leave all of kids stuff in the entryway at the house so he could pick it up. BIG MISTAKE.
We agreed (through intermediary) that he would drop off kids at their house on Sunday (our 12th anniversary). When I got home tonight (very relaxed and ready to enjoy my time alone) I saw his NOTE:
Hi, I'm goint to drop off the stuff here (the house) before or after I drop off the kids at (intermediary). I guess I won't see you Sunday June 6th. God willing next June 6th you will be happier. Love P
I couldn't help it--I left a message on his cell: "God willing...!!!! How about P willing!"
Know I shouldn't have done that, but for God's sake!!! I'm so tired of WH not doing anything and expecting some divine intervention!!!!
Intermediary is away until Sunday celebrating anniversary, so can't vent there. I plan on calling Intermediary on Sunday to call WS and let him know to drop off everything there and not come into the house anymore!!
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Dont answer next time...
My anniversary is also coming up on 15th June. I am wondering if he will send anything. Even if he does i will not answer it.
During 2004 new year i did a false plan B...WH also said something along that line...Happy new year he said and hope this new year i will be more happier than i was last year. YAAA RIGHT...i think this year is more horrible than compared to last year...last year was 3 false recovery, at least i still had that position where he wants to work in the marriage although he was lying.
This year it is mostly plan B and looks like heading for plan D if nothing else works.
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HELLO, I'M NEW AT THIS.. NEED TO TT
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Intermediary is away until Sunday celebrating anniversary, so can't vent there.
You really shouldn’t be venting to your intermediary.
They have enough to do as the intermediary and if you start dumping everything on them, they will start to “choose” sides or get sick of you and quit.
Kimbr,
HELLO, I'M NEW AT THIS.. NEED TO TT
Start a new thread.
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