WH send me this message... her parents know about me and her. Found out last night until 5am this morning. i am waiting to meet the parents.

I am laughing with glee. Serve them both right! OW parents did not believe when i told them about their daughter 4 months ago. Now they are both going to get it. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Dont worry i am keeping to plan B. Have not replied to WH message nor have i called him back.

I wonder if the parents caught them in bed together. Wouldnt that be a fun sight! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

I wonder if WH is going to tell the parents that he will divorce me and married OW...??? If he does that i gladly sign those papers.

Wow! This is a a major turn of events. I have toyed with the idea of telling OW parents (thinking that she must be younger), but wasn't sure about doing it (I would have to pay $$ to find out their address). I can't believe that they initially didn't believe you. Well, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree (rationalizing, total denial, etc.). Hopefully, they will be able to talk some sense into their daughter. Just you wait, I can't imagine that her parents will be tickled pink that their young daughter is in love with a MM 17 years her senior.

When I was in my early 20's I was seeing a married man and didn't think that I was having the affair, since I wasn't married. I did stop seeing him as soon as he said that he wanted to work on his marriage. But I think if my parents had known they would have sat me down and said, "What the hell are you doing! We brought you up to THINK!! What you are doing is wrong, wrong, wrong!!" My friends at the time didn't say too much to me. You need parents to say the hard stuff. Let's pray she has parents like that.

Thanks for resonding to my post yesterday. I was in the middle of responding to you, when the phone rang and, of course, it was him. I was in earshot of his message and he was saying "I will not go through intermediary. It's ridiculous and awkward for him and everybody." (Notice he didn't say it was awkward for "him"). Anyway, I was so disgusted with myself that I turn off the computer and finished a bottle of wine. I'm back on track today.

Do you recommend telling OW's parents? I was thinking of sending my Plan B letter to them (when and if I can get their adress.

FE

zizzy - Sounds good. At least this should put some heat on the affair. You stay very dark.

I am wondering why your WH would email you about meeting OW's parents.

Believer...i kinda crack a bit today and send him a text message saying...in respond to your message yesterday - when you are ready to come home, i will help you.

I know i know i SHOULD NOT have. You see...I had this imagination about your Lighthouse story...WH is the ship lost in the fog...but somehow one distress signal comes through...i am the guard at the lighthouse so should i not respond??? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Anyway its done and lets just wait to see what else will happen. I am also wondering why did he sent me that message. What is the point? Its like telling me WH wants to marry her or something. I would not be surprise if he does that. But the funny part is that he is still married to me and have not even work one step to divorce.

WH is so completely lost...i wrote a list of why i want him back and why i dont want...somehow the list for i dont want him back is longer than the latter.

FE...TELL OW PARENTS...get $$$ and do it...expose and expose. I heard that OW was slapped by parents when i first told them but OW denied it alllll the way. My mother also called OW mom but OW mom said to my mom, Did you see them together? and that she wanted proof. Well...now they got it. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

I hope OW parents do something. I know for sure OW is a very clingy sort of person. I think OW will defy her parents and continue to lie and go out to meet WH behind their back. OW and WH are co workers...one of them need to quit before i can even gain one step in saving this marriage...

My saga is still far from over. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

zizzy - Try to stay dark, and not get involved in their drama. I think there will be fireworks for OW. She may defy her parents, but a little light on the A is a good thing. She will get plenty of pressure. That is good.

Believer...i love the idea that there is fireworks at her end... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

How are you feeling lately? I've been good. I hardly ever think about WH, except when he shows up at my house.

I made a list of why I want him/don't want him back. There was hardly anything on the want him list. Hmmmmmm.