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My Ws told me last night that she is going to the other man. I have been in a state of shock and grief now for 2 days. I know it's over, she won't change her mind now. So How does one grieve over a marriage? I am seeing my lawyer tomorrow to get the ball rolling on the paperwork. I am so hurt by all this. She is in love with her old high school bf. This is breaking up 2 families with 5 children invovled. My kids(28,25 and 18) will be so hurt as will the 13 and 19 yr old in hus family. How can a person chose to destroy 2 marriages? This hurts so badly. I've lost both my Mom and Dad but this is worse than either of those losses. I am hurting so bad, is there anything that will make the pain bearable?
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Sorry to hear this news. Let me get this right. She is moving across the country to be with OM?
If you don't want a divorce, don't file. Make her do it. Then get some anti-depressants to help you get through this.
I think your wife is making a huge mistake.
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My wife is moving across the country to the OM. I also think it is a huge mistake but she won't change her mind for anything now. She is just gonna have to experience the conseqences of her actions. I am lost and hurting but I won't be always. I have faith.
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Let her go, but make her do all the D work. She is liable to be back.
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I am letting go. It's my only option. I think she will be back but I might want her back after this.
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